Having been involved in financial trading for 11 years, from the gold and crude oil markets in 2015 to now. To be honest, I can't say I’ve achieved financial freedom, but at least I can make a living from this.
The most interesting part is the evolution over these ten-plus years.
In the beginning, high leverage and full-position trading were the norm. I could place thousands of orders in a single day, fingers never leaving the keyboard, eager to absorb every market fluctuation. Later, I gradually realized the cost of such trading—frequent transactions meant frequent mistakes, and my mindset became unstable.
So, my trading frequency gradually decreased. From thousands of trades a day to dozens; then from needing to find setups daily to only making two or three trades a week; now, I only open about ten trades a month, and last week I even closed a position with a flat.
This process may seem "lazy," but in reality, it’s an upgrade in trading philosophy. A core realization is: **Making money isn’t about being busy; money comes from patience**. The fantasies of getting rich quickly all stem from the thrill of high-frequency trading, but those who truly survive and profit steadily have learned self-control.
Timing, patience, simplifying trading systems—these old-fashioned pieces of advice are easy to say but hard to practice. But once you master them, the stability of your returns changes completely.
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LiquidationWatcher
· 01-12 03:30
man this hits different after watching people get liquidated chasing that dopamine rush... the discipline arc is real fr. most don't make it to the "boring month with one trade" phase tho, they blow up first.
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TokenTaxonomist
· 01-12 01:54
nah this is just survivorship bias wrapped in wisdom porn... statistically speaking, most day traders don't make it to year two. let me pull up my spreadsheet on this actually
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SandwichDetector
· 01-11 09:31
Money can indeed be earned over time, but the problem is that most people can't wait. Mindset is easy to talk about but hard to practice.
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BearMarketSurvivor
· 01-09 09:04
About ten transactions a month, now that's living smart. I used to be the kind of person who made hundreds of transactions a day, and only after my account blew up once did I realize that money really is made by waiting.
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DiamondHands
· 01-09 09:02
This is the real deal, much more reliable than those who boast about doubling their holdings every month. About ten transactions a month, I can understand this pace, but it really tests human nature.
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WhaleShadow
· 01-09 08:49
Just ten transactions in a month, this is what a true professional looks like. I have long seen through the quick-rich schemes.
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RebaseVictim
· 01-09 08:42
Thousands of trades a day? Bro, that's a gambler's mentality, not trading. I agree with the later realization—really, restraint is the key.
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YieldFarmRefugee
· 01-09 08:41
That's the difference. At first, it's all about the dream of making money quickly with quick fingers, but in the end, only those who know how to "wait" survive.
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ForkYouPayMe
· 01-09 08:38
This is the true realization of the way. From unable to stop with just a finger to about ten strokes a month, this change in mindset alone is valuable.
Having been involved in financial trading for 11 years, from the gold and crude oil markets in 2015 to now. To be honest, I can't say I’ve achieved financial freedom, but at least I can make a living from this.
The most interesting part is the evolution over these ten-plus years.
In the beginning, high leverage and full-position trading were the norm. I could place thousands of orders in a single day, fingers never leaving the keyboard, eager to absorb every market fluctuation. Later, I gradually realized the cost of such trading—frequent transactions meant frequent mistakes, and my mindset became unstable.
So, my trading frequency gradually decreased. From thousands of trades a day to dozens; then from needing to find setups daily to only making two or three trades a week; now, I only open about ten trades a month, and last week I even closed a position with a flat.
This process may seem "lazy," but in reality, it’s an upgrade in trading philosophy. A core realization is: **Making money isn’t about being busy; money comes from patience**. The fantasies of getting rich quickly all stem from the thrill of high-frequency trading, but those who truly survive and profit steadily have learned self-control.
Timing, patience, simplifying trading systems—these old-fashioned pieces of advice are easy to say but hard to practice. But once you master them, the stability of your returns changes completely.