Because her parents found out that we were together (we had been having a secret relationship for three years) and strongly opposed it. Her parents originally wanted to introduce her to an officer (around 30 years old, a major), saying that this person must be better than me, with a stable job, and that she wouldn't have to suffer with him, as he was already settled.
In the eyes of her parents, this officer is better than me in every way. Indeed, I am a poor country boy without a stable job; I have only made a little money by trading cryptocurrencies. To them, these are all "unreal things."
In their eyes, working in finance is unstable and is no different from being a "stock market gambler."
But it's already 2025, why is there still no right to love freely?
I just want to love the person I love, why do I have to think so much?
I don't have a family background, but I feel that I definitely won't be worse than others. I'm only 24 years old. Why should I think that in 6 years I won't be able to compete with others?
I do find it difficult to communicate and understand. I know that parents definitely do not want their daughter to suffer, but I just feel that if your daughter doesn't like me, then I have nothing to say, rather than using this reason that seems very "sad" to me.
Of course my fren loves me very much, so we are facing this huge challenge together.
Finally, I wish everyone a happy Valentine's Day! May lovers become partners!
@MavrykNetwork When will you let me make the list?
I want to make some money to buy a house for my fren!
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I chatted with my fren all night last night.
Because her parents found out that we were together (we had been having a secret relationship for three years) and strongly opposed it. Her parents originally wanted to introduce her to an officer (around 30 years old, a major), saying that this person must be better than me, with a stable job, and that she wouldn't have to suffer with him, as he was already settled.
In the eyes of her parents, this officer is better than me in every way. Indeed, I am a poor country boy without a stable job; I have only made a little money by trading cryptocurrencies. To them, these are all "unreal things."
In their eyes, working in finance is unstable and is no different from being a "stock market gambler."
But it's already 2025, why is there still no right to love freely?
I just want to love the person I love, why do I have to think so much?
I don't have a family background, but I feel that I definitely won't be worse than others. I'm only 24 years old. Why should I think that in 6 years I won't be able to compete with others?
I do find it difficult to communicate and understand. I know that parents definitely do not want their daughter to suffer, but I just feel that if your daughter doesn't like me, then I have nothing to say, rather than using this reason that seems very "sad" to me.
Of course my fren loves me very much, so we are facing this huge challenge together.
Finally, I wish everyone a happy Valentine's Day! May lovers become partners!
@MavrykNetwork When will you let me make the list?
I want to make some money to buy a house for my fren!