People who are doing well generally won't take the initiative to attack you. Those who are thriving are usually quiet and reserved. Materially wealthy and in good spirits, they see everything with a broad perspective. Those who attack you are often impoverished and stuck, or people who are jealous of you and have conflicting interests with you. People who are not doing well are irritable; they even want to kick stray cats on the street. There's a saying: Poverty breeds cunning, wealth cultivates kindness.