We often feel out of sync with the status quo, viewing ourselves as superior and different from others, making it hard to settle for mediocrity. However, this disdain for the ordinary mentality is often not accompanied by effective change strategies. Especially in the trading market, many people fantasize that they can conquer market rules, yet they have never seriously considered how to surpass the 90% of traders, instead immersing themselves in an illusion of continuous profit, even contemplating giving up relatively stable daily jobs.

This sense of dissatisfaction is not only reflected in personal development but also extends to interpersonal relationships. We often feel disappointed by our partner's ordinary performance, dissatisfied with others' behavior, attire, or negative attitudes, and we constantly try to impose our personal standards on those around us, expecting them to follow the path we've set.

When faced with opposition or doubt, a fantasy arises within: as if through some kind of epiphany, one could attain great wealth and thus transcend worldly troubles. This idea leads us to anticipate that one day, after achieving financial freedom, we can prove something to those who once ignored our advice, showcasing the opportunities they missed.

In fact, this mindset reflects our overestimation of our own abilities, fantasizing about accumulating vast wealth in the future and thereby gaining complete freedom and autonomy. While this seems to be a common psychological tendency, it precisely embodies the fundamental human desire for control and recognition. Recognizing this may be the true beginning of our growth.