Many people have asked how I made my first bucket of gold and how I managed to turn my life around. My experience is too complicated to explain in detail, so today I will briefly share my journey, hoping to inspire those who are still in the low point of their lives with debt:



With the defeat in the last World Cup in 2022, the World Cup is finally coming again next year. I have been waiting for this moment for 7 years. During these 7 years, I have endured countless trials and tribulations. Looking back at my life journey over these years: In June 2010, I had just graduated from university. Six months later, at the arrangement of my family, I went to work for a state-owned enterprise. Having never visited the city center, I enjoyed shopping at the mall after work and inadvertently became fascinated with slot machines. More than three years of gambling put me in debt of over 100,000 in credit card bills, while my monthly salary from working was only a little over 2000. At that time, I never knew how to deal with people, and my understanding of society was completely negative. My gambling debts were looked down upon by my family and relatives, but my catchphrase had become "to be the best in the world." I almost said this to everyone I met, just like Luffy always tells people he wants to be the Pirate King.

In 2015, with the remaining credit limit of 5000 on my credit card, I bought three broken computers and started my internet life. Although I had almost no understanding of the internet before, with a spirit of perseverance and the belief of becoming the best in the world, I changed the landscape of the industry in just over two months after entering it. At that time, there wasn't a single legitimate company in the domestic industry that was truly my own. I single-handedly made a small workshop named UED (pseudonym) the hottest in the domestic industry. Six months later, countless people scrambled to get UED's invitation code (the only company in the industry that required an invitation code for registration). The impact was like the first atomic bomb detonated in actual combat, rewriting the industry rules and making others realize that the internet could be used in such a way. That influence cannot be described by money and is the greatest honor of my life. I had no regrets, but the good times were short-lived. UED was completely banned by the state in 2016 due to its overwhelming success. The company, which I had worked so hard to promote, collapsed before it could make much money. It was a gamble I took, putting all my effort into it. I have always had poor health and no longer have the confidence to succeed a second time. This pain still feels like a dream to me.

Although UED has collapsed, it will always be a benchmark in the industry. The door has been opened by me, and countless senior figures in the industry want to get to know me. Among them, the two people who have had the greatest impact on my life are a CEO named Dabin (pseudonym) from a certain company and General H (pseudonym), the founder of XX. I was just a newcomer who barely understood anything. In fact, the certain company was just a small workshop back then, with an annual revenue of only tens of millions. They spent over a year trying to win me over, but I really looked down on them. Later, the conflicts with them reached an irreconcilable point (it was actually my fault for having no social experience at the time, not seeing clearly, and mistaking others' good intentions for ulterior motives). In mid-2016, they bribed internal personnel at a certain forum, took away all my resource channels, and blacklisted me. Whenever they saw my ads, they would block them. They then became the hottest company in the industry at that time, while I stubbornly refused to join their company, which left me with no way out for a long time.

I had no choice but to continue working for a British company (which I started working for in 2015). I didn't expect that the British looked down on Chinese people, and the main thing is that the British boss completely did not understand the Chinese market and would not personally connect with the agents. The management team, all of Chinese nationality, deceived and manipulated, taking all the credit for my work, where there is gratitude for a little help but enmity for a little grievance. I naturally thought it was impossible for a company that I could trust to do something underhanded, but unexpectedly, just because of a few words, they directly banned my account, making my 50 million commission vanish into thin air. However, the brand value I created for their company far exceeded 1 billion. How many people learned about this company because they saw my advertisement? I really feel very unwilling. I even thought about going to the UK to blow up their company. This idea existed until two years ago, before the cat incident, and that was another low point in my life.
In October 2017, I suddenly had no choice but to work for a newly established small company called bp (a pseudonym). In just six months, I managed to make some progress for the company. By July 2018, the World Cup finally brought a peak in my life; it was also the first time I understood what the World Cup is, what traffic means, and what a trend is. I earned over a hundred million in commissions with very little effort. However, two years later, I regretted it, and I am still in pain to this day, and that is because...

In June 2018, Mr. H suddenly called me for an hour, saying he had just established a new company, XX, and wanted me to join them. Since I had recommended him to do UED and BP initially, our relationship has been quite good. However, no matter what, we are still competitors and just online acquaintances. Plus, I had already developed BP, so how could I casually join another company? I was really unwilling to do it from the bottom of my heart, so I politely declined.
The World Cup kicked off in July 2018, and XX, like a certain Wan, also managed to buy off a certain bar (back then, that bar had a lot of traffic). Relying on the World Cup, it quickly became the hottest company in the country, far surpassing a certain Wan. At that time, I hadn't realized the severity of the problem until after 2019, when all my BP members went to XX, and BP was just a particularly small workshop with no vision. That's when I realized that if I had listened to Mr. H's advice, even if I had just struggled for a month, I could have earned commissions several times higher than BP. Moreover, BP also closed down in 2023 (they felt they had made enough money and decided to close shop). I found that bias can really change a person's destiny. I have suffered two irreversible major losses because of this; first missing out on a certain Wan, and then missing out on XX. I realized that I missed out on a billion; every day is spent in regret, and my mindset has been in a state of collapse.

Human strength is limited. Time and again, it wears out. From 2019 to 2020, during these two years, I traveled back and forth between various spa and wellness centers in Guangzhou, staying for three to five days each time. I experienced countless young ladies. It seemed glamorous on the surface, but deep down, I felt very lost. However, I never expected that the real nightmare would just begin after 2020...

In January 2020, although XX was only established for a little over a year, it had already become a large company with a daily income of 80 million. I was invited by Mr. H to go to the Philippines (it actually took half a month of coaxing, as I have social anxiety and initially didn't want to go, but I went anyway). The only time I met Mr. H was at a KTV, where he brought along over a dozen small shareholders to welcome me. He and his assistant told me that the person they admired the most was me (actually, the person I admired the most was him too). I was so nervous I couldn't say anything because of my social anxiety. After KTV, they arranged for a woman for me and also booked the most luxurious OKADA hotel in the Philippines, with a particularly well-built female assistant taking care of my daily life. This continued for over a month, and I felt like I had reached the pinnacle of life. At the same time, however, I was also under a lot of pressure because my background in the internet was too weak, and my channels and resources had been divided up by my peers. Yet, I was still eager to achieve results to prove myself, and terrifying things began to happen one after another; a nightmare was about to start...

In January 2020, shortly after Mr. H met with me, he went back to his home country for the New Year with several of his assistants, and then we lost contact (I only found out much later that something happened to him). Since I only knew him in the company and he hadn’t introduced me to more people, I had to coordinate with the company’s employees. After all, I used to help the company achieve results, and that was it. The company rented me a large office (though I didn’t really need an office because I was always fine with just a few computers), but having a few hundred square meters of office space unused felt like a waste, so I tried recruiting offline staff for the first time. I was quite casual with the salaries; I offered the female assistants a monthly salary of 70,000, and the ordinary employees had the highest base salary in the industry. I hired over 20 people in total, including 4 bodyguards, one of whom was Taiwanese and had a monthly salary of around 150,000. Due to my laziness and social anxiety, I only went to the office twice. At that time, I was quite complacent because I had nearly 100 million in savings, plus over 2 million in monthly commissions from BP. I never thought I would fail; I believed that spending money would definitely yield results. From 2020 to 2023, the team’s expenses reached around 100 million, yet it didn’t bring much return. I also engaged in trading cryptocurrencies, playing slot machines, gambling, being robbed by bodyguards, and being scammed, which collectively resulted in losses close to 200 million. I lost several properties in the country and tens of millions in savings in the Macau Sun City.

The 2023 World Cup has ended, and I disbanded all offline staff, arriving in Malaysia with endless fatigue. When I felt like I really couldn't hold on any longer, another nightmare began. My online employees collectively betrayed me. Until the end of 2024, after more than a year of investigation, I finally discovered that the mastermind was a cat (nickname) and all the things she did. She was my number one online employee, she invited trouble in, and everyone she hired afterward were scammers. They started causing trouble in 2022, which led to my failure in the World Cup, tried to kidnap me, extort me, expose my information, deceive me for promotional fees, and deceive me emotionally, among other things. Her crimes are countless. I suddenly rallied from my low point. I vowed to make her pay the price. I want her to see my true strength. Thanks to her, I embarked on a new life.

Summary: Through years of experience, I have found that whether a person can achieve their ideals does not depend on IQ, connections, or other random things, but rather on the determination to succeed.

Finally, quoting Cap's classic line: "The confused are vulnerable," I am no longer confused, so I have become stronger than before, being my true self.
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GreatLuckIsComingvip
· 11-02 13:12
New Ge's IQ should be very high.
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Dabaivip
· 11-02 12:21
I am also at a low point in my life right now. My parents and family think I have brought them a lot of shame. It's been a long time since I've been in touch with friends and classmates after graduation. Since I got involved in coins, my life has taken the biggest turn, becoming poorer and poorer 🤣, transforming from an excellent student, the legendary "other people's child" into a heavily indebted gambler. Now I rely on a friend I met online to help me with meals. I don't know if I can hit rock bottom and then rebound in the future, but anyway, I am already a notorious online "beggar."
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TheToughXinzivip
· 11-02 10:40
I am in debt of 1 million, in 1997 I really didn't know what to do, feeling depressed, indulging every day, feeling very gloomy, seeing no hope, the key is I don't know what to do, sigh, new brother advise advise little brother ah,
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YouDon_tKnowHowRichvip
· 11-02 06:26
Buckle up and hold on tight, we are about to To da moon 🛫
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GodInTheAtticvip
· 11-02 02:33
Brother Xin's life can be described as a series of small falls followed by big rises, and then a steady upward trend. From playing slot machines to reshaping the industry landscape through the internet, then seizing the opportunity during the World Cup to earn over 100 million in Commission, and then experiencing a setback due to management issues and betrayal of trust, he eventually bounced back again. The whole process is extremely impactful. I love the saying "Confused people are vulnerable to a single blow." My experience with Brother Xin during the slot machine phase is quite similar; I lost too much. The subsequent experiences felt like Brother Xin directly became the male lead in an online drama, instantly changing the industry landscape from a monthly salary of two thousand to earning millions daily, and then reaching billions as a unit. I really envy that.
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SillyBullvip
· 11-02 01:01
I didn't expect that in these years, Xinge has gone through so much; one setback after another has not defeated you, it only makes you stronger!
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Siqifovip
· 11-01 23:47
Bull shining brightly👍
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GodBlessMyGreatCausevip
· 11-01 16:17
Take me along, brother
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QuantitativeStartvip
· 11-01 15:43
This experience of the newbie brother is awesome.
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Goodvip
· 11-01 15:37
The troubles of having assets over a billion are something I will never experience in this lifetime😁
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